Just watched this again for the millionth time - I love those last five minutes.  

(Source: alldresseddown)

Songs that I’ve had on repeat for the last few days.  Everyone’s been posting their Hurricane Irene appropriate songs but not me.  Been keeping things acoustic, mellow and occasionally upbeat.

(Source: 8tracks.com)

It’s been about three months since my last book review and I’ve got a ton more to write about.  Too much really.  (My reading frenzy hasn’t slowed down one bit.) So instead of the long reviews I’m prone to do, I’m going to divide the books into three lists: must read, good read and don’t bother.    

MUST READ


GOOD READ


DON’T BOTHER


[I think this covers everything.  This list is also for me, so I can remember what I’ve read (I really should update my GoodReads account!).]

I’ve probably said this before but it does feel good to be reading all the time again.  It takes me back to a much simpler time in my life when I loved nothing more than to get lost in someone else’s story (and ignore my own drama).  And thanks to my cousin’s wife (who shares my love of young adult novels - we have an unofficial book club, hah!), friends and my lovely Nook.. I have access to more books than ever! :)  

But as always, recommendations are always welcome.  Happy reading!  

Reading Frenzy!

I’ve been on a reading frenzy since Saturday and thanks to a friendly reminder from Reena, I’m going to write up some reviews. 

The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
The book is told from an unexpected point-of-view (most reviews give it away but I’ll let you find out for yourself) and follows the life of Liesel Meminger, a child living in Germany with her foster parents during World War II.  At her brother’s graveside, she finds a book, The Grave Digger’s Handbook, and it’s at this point that she falls in love with books and words (and stealing!).  But it’s about more than just the books.  It’s about how she adapts to her new life with her foster family and their struggles during the war.  

When my cousin’s wife told me that by the end of the book she was sobbing, I was skeptical.  I had started the book that day and immediately found the storytelling to be unique and interesting. I could tell, because of the subject matter, that the book would have a dark and serious tone to it.  That it was story meant to have an emotional impact.  But would it make me cry by the end? In a word - YES.  I didn’t think I would but by the end of it, you get so invested in the characters and the world this author has created. It would be impossible not to feel anything.  It was a truly great read.

Do I recommend? Yes. 

Graceling by Kristin Cashore
In this fantasy world, “Gracelings” are marked by two differently colored eyes and are met with fear, awe and often, manipulation.  One such person is Katsa, who is graced with the gift of fighting and living under a tyrannical king (and uncle) who uses her abilities to do his bidding.  Secretly (as a means of defiance and penance), she forms a council that carries out secret missions to help people suffering from cruelty or abuse of power.  It is on one of these missions that she meets another Graceling who turns her world upside down.  

Clearly, I’m still on my Young Adult series obsession.  But even I was surprised by how quickly I became absorbed with the story and the characters.  The premise is great - it’s still a fantasy novel but (and I know I keep saying this) it’s such a relief to NOT read about vampires, werewolves or witches (I watch the Vampire Diaries for that!).  And sure there are lots of elements that you’d probably expect - romance (which I am a total sucker for most of the time), adventure, drama.  But what I didn’t expect and really loved was that the book had this undercurrent of feminism if you read between the lines.  Katsa was a really strong protagonist to me.  She was still figuring herself out but she had a good sense of what she did and didn’t want.  She was a fighter.  She wanted to help/encourage other women to defend themselves (big big theme!).  And I liked that.  Hopefully I didn’t give too much away and just enough that you’d want to read it.  It’s a good, fast but fun read if you’re in the mood for a YA kind of book.

Do I recommend? Yes.  

The Disappeared by Kim Echlin
It’s a love story about Anne Greves, a 16-year-old student, and Serey, a Cambodian refugee, set in Montreal during the 1970s.  Her father (and only parent) disapproves of her older boyfriend and his family is still in Cambodia having set him to Canada to escape the political drama in their country.  Still, they fall deeper and deeper in love until one day, Serey returns to Cambodia to find his family.  And he leaves without Anne.  More than a decade later, she sets off to find him and comes face to face with the harsh reality of life in Cambodia and what Serey has been dealing with all these years.  

The book wasn’t exactly what I expected and if I had paid closer attention to the cover, the quote about it being similar to Marguerite Duras’ work would’ve turned me off (she wrote L’Amant which I didn’t particularly love).  It had a good plot - that and the promise of something more to happen kept me reading on.  But it felt like we never hit that point.  I wanted to know more about each character, I wanted more of their story.  Plus I wasn’t too crazy about the narration (Anne, first person, looking back on her life).  And even though I felt for Anne, I never really felt like I fully knew or understood her character.  

Do I recommend? Eh.  It’s not a terrible read but there are better books out there.

Baby Proof by Emily Giffin
This book focuses on Claudia Parr and her husband Ben.  From the moment they met, they were perfect for each other and agreed on almost everything.  Including the decision to never have children.  Fast-forward a few years and suddenly someone’s changed their mind (I can tell you right now, it’s not Claudia).  Both are forced to re-evaluate their marriage, their wants and what this change means to them. 

Two things.  One, I’m usually pretty anti-chick lit.  Two, I’m not married and nowhere near having children (but I know I want kids eventually) so I wasn’t sure how or if I’d relate to these characters at all.  That said - I love love love Emily Giffin.  This is the fourth book of hers that I’ve read and each time, I find something or someone in her books to relate to.  Her characters are just so real and flawed.  And Baby Proof was no exception.  Even though the premise is very straightforward, you really feel for what Claudia is going through and the internal struggle to figure it all out.  She raises great questions about love, marriage and sacrifice (or compromise).  I really, really enjoyed this book. 

Do I recommend? Yes.

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After Baby Proof, I forced myself to take a break from reading because I’ve been sick and had to start sleeping earlier (the need to know the end of each of these books has been keeping me up!).  But it’s the weekend and I should be back to normal in a couple days so I’ll be able to get my read on again.  And when I do.. there’ll be lots more reviews coming your way. 

Enjoy and Happy Friday! 

Too good and too true to not reblog.  My three best friends are all female and they are all awesome :)
uprightcitizens:

In response to this bullshit.
You know what, Tumblr? I think 1000+ of you guys are grossly underestimating the awesomeness of having female friends. You can steal their clothes and talk about both Lady Issues and Non-Lady Issues with them and if you happen to get blackout drunk in their company, you can be pretty sure that they will not take advantage of you (aside from maybe taking some regrettable pictures and refusing to untag you in them). They can counsel you on things that, let’s face it, guys generally do not understand (both shallow and serious). I love having guy friends, but I also loooove having female friends. I don’t know why there’s this stigma surrounding girl-girl friendships, but it needs to end.
You say “Girls stab you in the back?” No, kids, bad friends stab you in the back. Gender has nothing to do with it. “Girls are catty?” Not all of us! Just like how not all guys aren’t super-cool chill bros who “have your back” all the time! The genders aren’t divided along such simple lines. Stop acting like they are, and stop encouraging lady-on-lady hate. Because honestly, if you don’t get along with any of the girls you know, I hate to be the bearer of bad news… but the chances are good that you are the problem.

Too good and too true to not reblog.  My three best friends are all female and they are all awesome :)

uprightcitizens:

In response to this bullshit.

You know what, Tumblr? I think 1000+ of you guys are grossly underestimating the awesomeness of having female friends. You can steal their clothes and talk about both Lady Issues and Non-Lady Issues with them and if you happen to get blackout drunk in their company, you can be pretty sure that they will not take advantage of you (aside from maybe taking some regrettable pictures and refusing to untag you in them). They can counsel you on things that, let’s face it, guys generally do not understand (both shallow and serious). I love having guy friends, but I also loooove having female friends. I don’t know why there’s this stigma surrounding girl-girl friendships, but it needs to end.

You say “Girls stab you in the back?” No, kids, bad friends stab you in the back. Gender has nothing to do with it. “Girls are catty?” Not all of us! Just like how not all guys aren’t super-cool chill bros who “have your back” all the time! The genders aren’t divided along such simple lines. Stop acting like they are, and stop encouraging lady-on-lady hate. Because honestly, if you don’t get along with any of the girls you know, I hate to be the bearer of bad news… but the chances are good that you are the problem.

(Source: lizdexia)

Read, Listen, Watch

Not much going on in the real world (and really, the last thing I want to do is complain about work - you can check my twitter out for that) but I have been reading a bunch of books lately, buying albums and watching new shows/movies.  So here’s a random mash-up of reviews: 

BOOKS

  • How To Breathe Underwater by Julie Ellen Orringer
    This book is a collection of short stories and was given to me by Estelle as part of our Christmas book swap. Most of the stories are pretty dark but extremely well-written.  My two favorite stories are: The Isabel Fish and Note to Sixth-Grade Self.
  • Hotel Iris: A Novel by Yoko Ogawa
    It’s hard to recommend a book that is so dark and disturbing but this author just has a way with words and describing her characters. 
  • The Water Wars by Cameron Stracher
    The book had a great premise and I liked the protagonist but there just wasn’t enough.  I felt like the characters and relationships could’ve been explored a lot more and the book ended up on a rather abrupt note (sequel?). It was good but not as good as I had hoped it would be. 

MUSIC

  • 21, Adele
    Love, love, love this album.  Her voice is so soulful and powerful (without any of that over-singing nonsense).  Favorite songs: Rumour Has It, Turning Tables, Someone Like You
  • Blue Ribbon Winner, Schuyler Fisk
     I just saw her live recently and she sounded just as good as the album, if not more so.  Favorite songs: Irregular Heart, Like A Fool, What Good Is Love, If You Were Gone
  • Angles, The Strokes
    Such a disappointment.  It wasn’t a terrible album but it certainly wasn’t memorable either.  I miss their old sound.  Favorite songs: Under Cover of Darkness, Two Kinds of Happiness

TV/MOVIES

  • Charlie St. Cloud (Zac Efron, Amanda Crew)
    I read the book first and I don’t think it translated well to film at all.  The acting wasn’t bad, but the story came across kind of cheesy on screen.
  • Flipped (Madeline Carroll, Callan McAuliffe)
    Such a heartwarming movie and not at all what I expected.  I thought it would be more of a cutesy little love story but there’s a lot more to it.  Definitely worth checking out.
  • No Strings Attached (Natalie Portman, Ashton Kutcher)
    Natalie Portman was HILARIOUS.  The funny scenes really had me laughing out loud and there were some cute moments too.  
  • White Collar (Matthew Bomer, Tim DeKay) 
    I just got into this TV show a couple days ago and I am totally hooked. It also doesn’t hurt that Matthew Bomer = hotness.  

Hope my reviews give you someone new to read/see/listen to! 

    Diane looks great when she’s all dressed up, and it’s a beautiful thing to have a woman pop out of a closet and I’m like, ‘Wow, look at you!’ I know how lucky I am. But do you know what? I’d take Diane in her at-home sweats with no make-up on and looking casual any day.
    — Joshua Jackson

    Source:

    He is just TOO perfect.

    (via sarahnademe)

    • Little Voice (Demo)

    Little Voice (Demo)
    by Sara Bareilles

    [Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]

    In case you didn’t know already, I LOVE Sara Bareilles.  I feel such a connection to her music and lyrics - I can name a dozen songs that I relate to personally.  And I just found an old demo she recorded for Little Voice but I guess never made it to the final cut.  I don’t know how this person managed to find it (and post it on youtube) but I’m glad s/he did because it’s a great song.  Simple and straightforward but again it’s her voice and lyrics that make it stand out.  

    It’s called “Little Voice” and I do not own this song, blah blah blah. You know the usual disclaimers.  Just here spreading my SaraB love.  Enjoy!

    It’s everything I am and what I’m not 
    And all I’m trying to be
    This is the part where I spit it all out 
    and you decide what you think of me
    I’m not trying to be complicated 
    I’m never waiting to get the last laugh
    But I’ve been handing out benefits of the doubt
    and I’d like a little bit back

    It’s just a little voice
    and if you’re listening
    Sometimes a little voice
    Can say the biggest thing
    It’s just my little voice I’ve been missing

    What are your dreams?

    I had a really interesting conversation tonight with my cousin Michael.  He’s from Australia, a little over 20 years older than me (though if you met him, you’d think he was much younger than that) and just this very free spirit.  I’ve only seen him about 4 times over the course of my entire life but there’s something about him that’s always put me at ease in his presence.  He’s so warm and full of these amazing stories.  He was born in the Philippines but has been a resident of Sydney, Australia for the last 22 years. He’s traveled all around the world, which isn’t an exaggeration.  Case and point - in the last month he’s been to California, New York, Iceland, New York again, leaving for California again tomorrow and then back to the Philippines.  

    He was over my house tonight because he wanted to see us one more time before heading back home.  And prior to that, he had come over for New Year’s right before his Iceland trip.  So it was just me and him sitting in the kitchen and he was telling me about his experience there.  About the people he met and how he knows this must sound random but visiting Iceland has always been a dream of his (he loved it and is even considering moving there now).  Then he went on to tell me how it’s so important to follow your dreams.  It sounds extremely cliche in writing but when he told me that, it was coming from this very pure and earnest place.  He really meant every word.  I kept looking at him and thinking, no one talks like this.  No one does things like this.  At least no one I know.  

    Then he turned to me and said: “So… what are your dreams?” 

    We both laughed but he looked at me clearly expecting an answer.  I opened my mouth, trying to think of something to say but then my dad walked in and the moment passed.  I never got a chance to answer.  

    I don’t think anyone has ever asked me that before.  What are your dreams?  I was relieved when our conversation was interrupted because I honestly didn’t know what to say.  Probably the closest thing to an answer was when I mentioned that working at a certain company (starts with the letter G and rhymes with Boogle) was my dream job. His immediate response was: “What’s stopping you?”.  Again, I was stumped but quickly mentioned how my portfolio wasn’t ready, I haven’t updated my resume.  He just kept asking me things that most people, especially people in my family, don’t.  I mean, I don’t even ask myself these questions.  

    A friend recently said it seemed like I was in a rut.  I was actually kind of distressed when she said that. Because I didn’t think I was and did I really give off that vibe? But you know, I think she was right.  And as I listened to Michael tonight, it felt more and more apparent that I am in some sort of rut.  

    I thought by this time I would’ve moved out of my house, met someone special and gone to Europe (Paris!) with my best friends.  I have yet to do even one of the aforementioned things.  I guess that’s what I dream about.  Practically, I want that amazing job I can love and that’ll pay me extremely well.  But really, I want to travel the world, be on my own (I look through IKEA/Crate & Barrel catalogues and seriously make mental notes for my future place), fall in love, experience life with my favorite people, the list goes on.  

    I do have all these dreams.  But sometimes I think I dream too much and don’t do enough.  

    I’m a firm believer in the power of change. But there is one thing I’ve learned, and that’s the hardest part of moving forward is not looking back.

    Source: Sally, “Felicity”